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大马首位太空人列10招 教网民哄妻子追生娃
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如何说服妻子生多些孩子?推特一名网友分享了大马首位航空员的建议,引起网民反应两极化。
大马首位太空人列10招
教网民哄妻子追生娃
日前大马首位太空人锡慕查化(Dr Sheikh Muszaphar Shukor)在社交媒体IG 上,分享“10大哄妻生娃”的方法及承诺,以说服不愿再追生的妻子。
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10大哄妻生娃方法及承诺包括:
- 答应让妻子可以休息,并由丈夫来照顾家里的一切。
- 时常称赞妻子即使生了6个孩子,还是很漂亮。
- 询问妻子难道不想要更多可爱的孩子吗?
- 孩子们在我们年老后会照顾我们。
- 老了之后不会感到寂寞。
- 家中的“混乱”会让你保持年轻。
- 让穆斯林群体扩增是圣行。
- 带妻子去购物,买任何她想买的东西。
- 孩子越多越欢乐。
- 承诺会一起携手到老,不管妻子做任何决定都会爱她。
网民反映弹多过赞?
一名网友较后将其建议分享至推特,并表示第一条承诺或许会让她心动多生些孩子。没想到随后便在网上掀起热烈讨论,网民反应弹多过赞。
Dr Sheikh Muzaphar’s 10 tips to convince reluctant wife to have more children.The best tip is #1, it would work for me! ?Would these tips work for you, mommies? pic.twitter.com/lwQxru1Rj6— KAMELIA | Kamelia Cosmetics ??♀️ (@dreamonnisha) March 19, 2022
一些网民认为,女人要冒着生命危险在怀孕和分娩,牺牲的已经够多了,产后还要承受各种创伤,丈夫因为自己想要很多孩子而“哄”妻子“去冒险”, 未免太自私了些。
women risk their lives and sacrifice so much during pregnancy/childbirth. to "pujuk" them to risk their lives more than they intend to feels kinda selfish ngl :// https://t.co/TA4pB3QYFe— addina ? (@nas_addina) March 21, 2022
do men not realize how traumatic most pregnancies are? yeah sure post partum women's bodied release hormones to shut down the trauma but that's not the case for everyone. this is softcore bullying your wife into having more kids just because YOU want them. it's not your womb tho https://t.co/I4GQdKqcoa— noel ? ✊? (@NoelHasFeathers) March 21, 2022
也有网民认为,凡事应该有商有量,丈夫不该对太太进行道德绑架,试图利用宗教义务和要求诱导妻子。
Is it just me or no 3 & 7 sound manipulative? It's guilt-tripping her?? I hope guys don't do this to their wives. It's fine to discuss and decide together on what would work best, but refrain from using religious obligations and asking guilt inducing things like "dont u want..." https://t.co/UraGmYKA9X— J ? (@jayjaejey) March 21, 2022
一名男网民也认为,作为丈夫应该要尊重太太不想生多胎的想法,毕竟怀孕的痛,男人是无法理解的。
Only if you can afford financially,mentally, and physically.But no for me. Even if I can afford all of that. If my wife said two is enough. Then two it is. I would not convince her for more.Being preggy is super hard. Us men can never fathom that. https://t.co/BGYkLwwQAv— Sabri Kamal (@KucingJiranKau) March 21, 2022
也有网民嘲讽,认为最根究底都是钱作祟,只要有钱,要生多少都没关系,有钱好办事啊!
All about money. If you have alot of money, u can planning more easily https://t.co/9nmuhncXPn— Ash (@SinnedSausage) March 22, 2022
When you're rich, it's easy... https://t.co/Te7z1CR6vX— ? (@Salvatoresugarb) March 22, 2022
不过,也有网民为原po护航,认为部分网民扭曲了其本意,表示字里行间显示原PO并没有强迫妻子,而是选择用温和的方式去说服。
Dari semalam tau bising case ni but korang tak baca ke atas tu’ after all its her body’ if you dont want baby then okay la discuss. he’s just telling the way he convinced her jeee in a good way takde pon memaksa.apa yang korang marah sangat tak fahamm la https://t.co/GJT1me61tJ— HONEYTREATS? (@frhanyizzaty) March 22, 2022
也有网民认为,原PO此做法显示他有想要事先征求妻子的同意,并不存在不尊重妻子的说法。
Its nice that he needed his wife consent to have more kids. Some women were unlucky on that part, case in point— my mother. I grew up w 13sibs, my sister and i were born 11months apart. I think marriages were often criticised and scrutinised these days bc people are oversharing/ https://t.co/CQTo7AgU3W— ᴀᴍᴘᴇʀsᴀɴᴅ (@bingwrites) March 21, 2022
随着课题持续发酵,掀起部分民众负面反应,分享上述建议的网民较后也发文缓颊,希望网民能注意第10点,即丈夫承诺会一起携手到老,不管妻子做任何决定都会爱她。
This was just me sharing something I thought would benefit many!Never thought it would get this much RTs/likes/responses.For those unhappy with this tweet, jom kita take note of #10: he will love his wife until eternity no matter what her decision ?— KAMELIA | Kamelia Cosmetics ??♀️ (@dreamonnisha) March 20, 2022
作为一名丈夫,用各种甜言蜜语哄太太生多胎,是不是自私的行为呢?欢迎到《热点Hotspot》面子书分享你的看法!
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